Please Be Carefull !!

[Crepe Myrtle]

I, for one, not a new breeder. You might check my profile on this webpage when I signed, but no one can assume I am new to the community. I've been around the block when it comes to breedables, including drama and et al.

Whether you are not "bashing" or "bashing", there are comments on this thread were very condescending. There were comments sound like "bullying" or intimidation. Yes, I have read everything here. Do these comments help any breeders? Might be, but how do they take that? If you are trying to guide someone, trying to nip the "bud", where are you really nipping the bud? Why is it a lost cause now to anybody? Have anybody thought about that? Have you given up or the community has given up? Instead of stepping back, we react. I know it's human nature to react. Instead of having reactive thoughts and words, be proactive in your action and words. There are people who will not speak up and stand up when they are being insulted. Who are defending them? Who are helping them? Let's reverse the situation, how do you feel if you are being insulted? Always remember, put yourself in their shoes and karma bites. It's better to pay it forward.